Friday, January 28, 2011

The Things I Never Dreamed I Would Do or Say

Before I became a mother there are several things I never thought I would do or hear myself saying. I have listed them below for your enjoyment/dismay. If you are a parent I am sure you understand. If you aren't a parent yet.......You will understand sooner or later.

1. I never thought I would pick up another individual and smell their rear to determine if I thought they had pottied in their pants.

2. I never EVER thought I would use my sleeve to wipe another individuals nose, for lack of anything better to wipe it with.

3. I never thought I would say, "Is that a grape or a boogie on your nose/finger.

4. I never thought I would say," Don't stomp your poop" to an individual being hosed down in the bathtub. See my post, "So funny it's Horrifying!"


I could probably go on and on about the things I have said or done but I will leave it at that. Maybe in a few months I will post a revised edition!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Little Reminders

I have still been in a bit of a blue mood this past week. Not sure why, though as I mentioned before, several things could have built to create my mood. This morning, as I was rushing around the house to find our bibles before we left for church, I feel like God gave me a little reminder that He is in control. I found our bibles in the office (it's sad that I didn't know exactly where to find them). I tried to grab both of them with one hand but my bible is leather bound and the cover shifted and it slipped from my hand. When the bible landed it was open with the pages facing the floor. Something made me scan the page it was open to just to see. Now you may say this is a coincidence but I really believe God uses all kinds of methods to talk to us. When I scanned the page I realized it was open to a verse I know very well. Jeremiah 29:11: "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

This verse did give me hope. It served as a reminder that my Father in heaven loves me and He is going to take care of my future, my husband's future, and my son's future. So I am going to claim that verse and remember it when I am overcome with the stress of life.

As I am typing this out, I think I have discovered one of the reasons I have been feeling so blue lately. I have not been spending the time with God that I should be and I have not been digging into the Word. I am sure I could come up with all sorts of reasons for this but it basically boils down to me letting the busyness that is life get in the way of my relationship with God. If you are reading this please pray for me in regards to that. I pray over others so many times that God will allow them to find that time in their day to spend with Him and oh how it will bless them. It's ironic that, though I have prayed this over others, I find myself not making that time. I know it will bless my day. So I am going to strive to be better at this! Hopefully it will improve my mood.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

In a Funk

Yup that's right I am in a funk. Not sure why though I suspect a series of events put me in my funk. I am going to do my best to get out of this funk and not make my husband and son miserable in the process. Bless my husband's heart, he is a saint for putting up with me. Which is why I am glad my pastor mentioned on Sunday that though we love our spouses, we sometimes have to put up with them. Actually his exact words were "bear with them". My husband was already doing a good job of this Sunday before the pastor said that. :) Have I mentioned I love him?! OK, that is all I have for now. I need to go try to get out of this funk.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Living with a Toddler

Our son has been an overachiever from the beginning. A little too smart for his own good. He learned to crawl at six months and by the time he was 9 1/2 months he was walking. I knew I was in for it when he became more mobile because he was just too curious. In the last two places we lived he was a little more contained. Baby gates were set up to where he was pretty much in his room if ever left to his own devices. This worked for him and me both because it allowed me to get things done and him to have some alone time. Now that we have moved to our new home I wanted him to feel like it is his home to because well, it is! This has led to a series of events that have either shaved years off my life or dissolved me into laughter.

Our first night in our new home our son had to sleep in our bed because we didn't have his set up yet. If you read my previous blogs then you know we went on vacation right after moving but before unpacking. Anyway, as I was saying the first night in our new home our son woke up and sat up in bed screaming and crying. He was inconsolable. We tried to hug or pat him and he would shove our hands away and continue to scream. I got up to get him a sippy cup of water. He grabbed it and drank it as if he hadn't drank in weeks. And then all was fine with the world. I laugh about it now but at the time when he was screaming I was so worried that something was wrong because he has been sick. All he really wanted was a drink of water and was too upset to tell us!

Our second day in our new home our son had been wandering around wherever he pleased. Which was fine with us, we just had to keep an eye or ear on his where abouts. I was in the kitchen and heard him in our bedroom opening my dresser drawers. I told my husband he might want to check on him and shortly after I said that we both heard a loud awful bang. We both took off running for the bedroom. My son sat calmly in the floor with a fruit cup of applesauce dipping his fingers in it and eating it. That same cup of applesauce had been on top of my dresser (I don't know or remember why). He had pulled out the drawers to climb up and get it. In doing that he caused the dresser to fall over. Fortunately it was caught by another dresser or it would have landed on him. He didn't cry or anything just sat where he had landed eating the applesauce. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry so I just turned and walked out of the room after assuring myself he was ok and let my husband pick him up. After I had composed myself I scooped him up and simultaneously hugged and scolded him.

That same day, after the dresser episode, my husband scooted my son's dresser in his room closer to the wall and where it would fall on the changing table if we had a repeat. I was in his room playing with him and turned my back to pick up something. Next thing I know he is crying and all I can think is I didn't hear him do anything. I turn around and found him wedged between his dresser and the wall. I had to pull the dresser out to get him out.

Tonight after the jewelry show/open house I had here he had another fun adventure. I had made chocolate cupcakes for my guests and the leftovers were sitting on the counter near the edge. I came out of another room into the hallway and my son ran by with chocolate on his face. My husband came runing after him with a baby wipe. I got on to my husband for feeding our son a cupcake. He said, "I nothing, go look for yourself." There was a cupcake that had little finger swipes in the icing and a bit pinched off. Our son had been reaching up and grabbing at the cupcake. Nothing is safe in this house!

Now we haven't even been in this house a week and I am already questioning his freedom but I know it is good for him. I have had a glimpse into the many adventures I am sure to have with my curious little boy. I am glad that God has a watch over him and has saved him from sure disasters. That way I can look back and chuckle at him. Afterall, he is just being a little boy. Be prepared for blogging about the adventures of my son. For now I believe I shall go watch the little angel sleep. That is really the only time he is still for very long :)

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Unpacking.....

So when you move you have to pack quickly because you usually have a deadline to get out of the current house. But the new house it's going to be with you for awhile. So what do you do? Unpack ever so slowly; preferrably after having taken a week long vacation. What that isn't what you did? Well this is my story!

Yea so we got home from vacation and didn't even have a bed unpacked to sleep on yet. Rest assured that happened right away. The other large furniture gradually made its way in because we had another warm body here and had to take advantage of that. But the rest is still neatly stacked in the basement and garage still in boxes. My method has been to grab a box every time I go down to the basement and unpack it. However, I have a goal. Really I do! By Thursday I need to have the bathroom, living room and kitchen liveable. Because we lead small group on Thursdays and childcare is at our house. No pressure there right?! It's ok I'm not stressing over it.....well maybe a little.

For now I am going to go cuddle with a cute little boy. Unpacking boxes is over-rated in comparison to cuddling!

Friday, January 7, 2011

Already blown it with the resolution but we have a new house!

Yeah, so my resolution to blog more frequently hasn't happened yet! Something about closing on a house 3 days before Christmas, then moving everything in 2 days before going on vacation, oh yeah and being on vacation that keeps one from blogging. That's right I got excuses!

As soon as I get back from this vacation though I am excited to get to put our house together and do some painting. My awesome hardworking husband already refinished the hardwood floors(which are in every room but the bathroom and kitchen yay!). I am just so excited for us to have a place that is ours. We can do whatever we want to it without calling the landlord for permission. We made a list of all the things we want to do to the house. It's long and it is going to take years to do it all but we are ok with that because we plan on being there for awhile.

When I get back I plan to take some pictures of the house and post them. I am not making any promises that it will happen quickly because we won't have internet right away. So that is my valid excuse for not blogging right away. We won't have internet up an running because our service could not be transferred over. Which baffles me because we live in the middle of town and had it two streets over but that is another story all together.

So stay tuned and hopefully in between chasing a toddler, setting up house and life in general you are going to hear more from me!